Scott has passed

Erin posted this to the Yahoo group:

Janey called me just now-Scott has passed. For the moment, she sounds calm, said she would still like to get some sleep.

My heart goes out to Janey and her family. Annipuss


80 thoughts on “Scott has passed

  1. Give rest, O Christ, to thy servant with thy saints,
    where sorrow and pain are no more,
    neither sighing, but life everlasting.

    Almighty God, Father of mercies and giver of all comfort: Deal graciously, we pray thee, with all those who mourn, that casting every care on thee, they may know the consolation of thy love…

    Sorrow and prayers, dear Janey, please feel wrapped in the love and support of all of Cheezland.

  2. ai’m so sawry to heer ub yoor loss…
    ai send prayers an beems ub peace to yoo an yoor fambly…..

  3. Janey, I am sure you don’t member/know me – ai is a long timeago cheezepeep – but I have been reading comments and following the latest when I can for a long time as well- and I am so sorry for your loss. My heart hurts and eyes leak for you. They say time heals most wounds and heaven heals all.

    • I do vaguely remember, but as you may imagine, my attention has been rather focussed these last few years on my husbear. He shall wipe every tear from our eyes someday–oh, may it be soon!
      love you bunches! —-janey

  4. Though I never ‘met’ Janey or Scott, I have followed the saga of Scott’s health challenges through the Cryer, and through the heartfelt loving wishes of the CheezPeeps, come to know you are greatly loved. I feel the sorrow of CheezLand, and send my condolences.
    Now are the Earth’s cruel chains loos’d
    And Heaven’s gate open wide
    To welcome home a beloved soul
    To Peace and Love unbound.
    (((((Janey and Scott)))))

  5. As for me, the reward of virtue is to see Your face
    And on waking to gaze my fill on Your likeness
    psalm 17.15

    Oh Janeyjaneyjaney, Cheezland is all over this and we’ve got you covered and hedged in. Be wrapped in the arms of His comfort.


    • Behold what manner of love the Father has given unto us, that we should be called the children of GOD, and so we are. Beloved, it does not yet appear what we shall be, but we know that we shall be like Him, for we shall see Him as He is. –from I John 3:1 & 2
      He KNOWS now. His faith has become sight. That is just awe-inspiring….
      Love you bunches—janey

  6. Oh, heartbreaking for you! He’s no longer in pain and will always be with us in laughter and spirit and all the memories you have.

    Would mai distraction goggie pic AI maeded halp u oars wud dat beee tew much raight nao?

  7. So much sorrow I have for you, darling Janey. May you have peace. Know that all your cheezie frens are holding you and beaming for you and yours. With love from your friend, scarletkitty.

    • I know how busy you are, sweet one. Thank you for taking a few seconds to stop in. That peace that passes all understanding is guarding my heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Thank you, beloved.
      Love you bunches—janey

  8. oh janey. i am so sorry for your loss. words cannot express how much i love and admire you for the care and comfort you have given scott. we are with you in your time of sorrow.

  9. I know the two of you fot so long n hard for him- but at the last I know in my heart his Father’s arms were open to him to keep him, safe and pain free, what a relief for Scott.
    I also know he didn’t want to leave you alone to grieve for him, but now he sees you are not alone dearest Janey- you have all your family and friends in real life, and a whole buncha cheezfriends here. take heart my dear, and celebrate him and his life
    Never forget how much he loved you. Never forget how hard he worked an the pain and distress he went thru trying to stay here with you. but Our Father knew it was time for him to come home, an now he is there, warm and comfy, breathing easier than ever- no pain, safe. At home in Gods loving arms.
    Bless you,Janey. We are here for you. be calm and peaceful in your loss, close your eyes and feel our gentle hugs as we send them out to you, to lift you thru these next few difficult days and weeks. It will get better. and remember to lift up your eyes into the hills, from whence cometh your help. keep your chin up, and your eyes focused on the sunshine- it may look far away now, but it’s out there for you.
    All my love, Melody (AKA: Sparkysmom)

  10. Janey, I don’t even know you & Scott, but I’ve been following his progress here, and I feel as thought I do know you both… and now my eyes are leaking, and I’m wishing I had a shamwow. I can’t begin to express my sorrow for the loss of your beloved Scott. I wish you peace, love, and comfort. I also ask you to lean on your friends and family now, and in the months to come… let them help you; let them do for you… it will help both you and them immensely. You’re NOT a bother to us/them! We love you, and we want to help you through this in any way we can. Please let us. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{Janey}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} ♥

    • One of the most difficult things to learn is how to receive graciously. Thank you for reminding me! SP, remember that you are just as loved as Scott or i or anyone who has known the LORD–for He does love us all. GOD bless you, dear heart.
      {{{{{{{{{{{{Suburban Prairie}}}}}}}}}}}}
      Love you bunches—janey

  11. Beemz of love and care for you, Janey. May your grieving be eased by the loving memories of your life together, and by the kind thoughts, energy, and prayers from your many cheezpeep buddies! {{{{{Janey}}}}} Farewell, Scott! May this next part of your journey be all you hoped for!

  12. Janey dear, my eyes are full and so is my heart. I can’t say anything better than other Cheezfrenz have already done, but know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God comfort and strengthen you now and always, and know too that your Cheezpeeps love you.

  13. I am so sorry for your loss, Janey. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

    {{{{{{{{{{Janey, Scott and family}}}}}}}}}}

  14. Janey, I know you have many messages and a lot to process, but he is with others now, out of pain, and awaits you. Be kind to yourself.

  15. Janey I have never met you. But, I just read about your loss, I am so sorry. You and your family will be in my prayers and thoughts. I am new to a lot of things on here. But the more I see the more I am impressed with how wonderful the people are on here.

  16. What can be said to comfort the loss of a beloved partner? I, as so many of us, have been following your reports of Scott’s health for some time and one thing is so very apparent. That is your deep, abiding faith and sure knowledge of something greater beyond for all of us. Your strength and thoughtfulness in keeping cheezland aware of what must have been a heartrending journey speak volumes of your huge heart and love. I don’t know you, Janey, but you are a shining inspiration for me anyway. {{{{Janey and fambly}}}}

  17. Janey, I just can’t think of anything to say. All I can do is offer my condolences, prayers and thoughts to you at this time. Take care honey.
    {{{{{Janey and family}}}}} xxx

  18. Oh Janey, I am so sorry to hear this. Know that you are in the center of a loving circle, who will be here whenever you need us. Much love and many blessings.

  19. Eternal rest, grant unto Scott O Lord and let perpetual light shine upon him.
    May he rest in peace.

    Dearest Janey, I am so sorry to hear this news. My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family at this time. I pray you will feel God’s comfort and peace at this time. Also know (as others have said) you have the love, care and beams of Cheezfrenz everywhere. With love, hugs & peace Rebecca (Shadowcat77).

    {{{{{{{{{Janey & Family}}}}}}}}

  20. Janey, you have been Scott’s pillar of strength. I admire the courage and fortitude with which you have faced this long trial. Scott’s trials are over; his victory has begun. God bless you and keep you strong.
    Linda (muchcat)

    • “The dream is over; this is the morning.” —C. S. Lewis, The Last Battle

      Thank you, dear.
      Love you—janey

  21. I am so sad tu heer uv dis sweet man’z passing. Scott wuz a gud man hoo luved and wuz luved bai awl hoo gnu him. Hii will b sorely mist. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Janey}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

  22. Oh, my precious, precious friends—i do not have words for how very grateful i am for your love and prayers and thoughts and support over these last few years. You must know that he went so peacefully—he just flew away, with no struggle, once the respirator tube was removed. He wanted to go home to be with our LORD, our babies, and our loved ones, and he most definitely did NOT want to have to fight that blasted cancer any more. I would not hold him here–he did hurt all the time and was so frustrated at not being able to DO! But his walk with GOD was growing closer all the time and i was privileged to see that happen. No i await our Chief’s next set of instructions, once we have dealt with the elebenty details. Thank you again, and GOD bless you all. He is holding me close, and i know He will walk me through this—i am now going to have to live the sermon i’ve given to so many of my friends and family—not to wallow in the pain, nor to shut it off, but to walk through it.
    My dearest love to you all—janey
    P.S.–we are trying to figure out how to get some words in between all the music we want!

  23. Janey,
    I am having trouble finding the words. I am so very sorry for your loss, while at the same time admiring you SO MUCH for the strength and courage you have shown over this long and difficult journey. Scott was a very lucky man to have such a couragious and loving life partner. Please take comfort now in your family and friends, and know that this little but strong community of Cheezpeeps, of which I am so grateful to be a part of, is holding you in their collective hearts.
    *Sings in the strongest alto voice she can muster*
    How lovely is they dwelling place,
    Oh Lord of hosts, Oh Lord of hosts!!
    {{{{{Janey & Family}}}}}

    • Oh, yes—
      “My heart and my flesh cry out for the living God—–
      Yea, the sparrow has found her a house
      And the swallow a nest, where she may lay her young—
      Even Thine altars;
      Even thine altars,
      Oh LORD of Hosts,
      My King and my God!”

      I remember Mama singing that when i was little!
      Love you! –janey

  24. May you have peace and strength, Janey! We lubs u so hard. Thanks for always sounding so cheerful in this time of grief. You and your faith amaze me. (((Janey)))

  25. Janey, I’m so sorry for your loss. You and Scott were so blessed to have each other. May you find comfort in the certainty that he is pain-free and at peace now. The Lord will see you through this — He loves you, and we all love you too.

    Your faith and courage have been an inspiration to all of us.

  26. Janey, massive hugs. Nothing I can say will help the hurt but I lost my husband 2 1/2 years ago if you ever need to talk call or email me. I live in tx. 469-383-1966.

    • Thank you, dearest. You are just starting to come out of the fog yoursel, if the timeframe after our littlest’s death holds true. Thank you for reaching out—love is the only thing that, when you give it away, it grows. (well, that and sourdough starter…..) GOD bless you, dear one.
      Love you lots—janey

  27. Janey, may you be surrounded by God’s love and peace and strength. His hand is on your back when you feel you can’t take another step. {{{Janey}}}

  28. Just fur u, Janey!

    “Do not stand at my grave and weep,
    I am not there… I do not sleep.
    I am the thousand winds that blow…
    I am the diamond glints on snow…
    I am the sunlight on ripened grain…
    I am the gentle autumn rain.
    When you waken in the morning’s hush,
    I am the swift uplifting rush
    Of gentle birds in circling flight…
    I am the soft star that shines at night.
    Do not stand at my grave and cry—
    I am not there… I did not die…”

  29. Deepest sympathy and prayers for peace and healing of the ache in your heart and mind. (((((((((((Janey))))))))))))) —Deb

    • …he finished the course, he kept the faith. Henceforth there is laid up for him in Heaven a crown of glory! I’m being good, honey. I’m still doing the carth-up with all the e-mails, but i think that will take a litle while. Thank you, dear one!
      Love you lots! —janey

  30. Janey, I am so sorry for your loss. I’m sending you love and praying for you and for Scott during this time of transition and loss. I know your faith is strong and will sustain you. I hope you have good friends who can give you support in the material world, and you know that love is being sent to you through the spiritual world. You are in good Hands.
    Bless you. Bless Scott.

    • Mama says there is no distance in the Spirit! And i am in the best hands—-with those scars that tell of His love.
      Amazing love! How can it be
      That Thou, my God, shouldst die for me?

      We’ll be singing that one, too.
      Love you! —janey

  31. I am so sorry to hear this. I’ve followed Scott’s ups and downs on the Cryer, and of course we were all hoping for a better outcome. I hope you’ll find comfort in knowing he’s free from his pain and illness and in a place of peace. {{{{{Janey & Scott}}}}}

  32. {{{{Janey and Scott}}}} I am so sorry for your loss and can only sit in awe of your faith and love. I know that Scott was blessed with his own wings on his release, if only by your faith alone. Much love to you and your family.

  33. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Janey}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
    Sending you and your family love, peace and beems of healing from this loss. Please know that you are in my prayers for faith, comfort and strength.
    This song jumped into my head and I hope these words help to comfort you:

    I come to the garden alone,
    While the dew is still on the roses;
    And the voice I hear, falling on my ear,
    The Son of God discloses.

    He speaks, and the sound of His voice
    Is so sweet the birds hush their singing;
    And the melody that He gave to me
    Within my heart is ringing.

    I’d stay in the garden with Him
    Though the night around me be falling;
    But He bids me go through the voice of woe,
    His voice to me is calling.

    And He walks with me, and He talks with me,
    And He tells me I am His own;
    And the joy we share as we tarry there
    None other has ever known.

    • Oh, my dear, that is one of my favorites, tho’ i hardly ever make it through without crying. Thank you! I have had so much prayer support that right now, i know only the joy that Scott is free and with his Savior. GOD bless you and thank you, sweet one.
      Love you bunches—janey

      • Oh, I’m so pleased that this is one of both of yours’ favorites. My best friend sang this (what a voice she is blessed with!!!) at my mom’s memorial service 3 years ago. I still can’t sing it without getting a case of the leeky ii’s. God bless and be with you janey.

  34. Janey–I’m so sorry for your loss. Before he died, Thomas More wrote his daughter, “Pray for me as I will for you, that we may merrily meet in heaven.” I love the idea of being merry in heaven!

    I pray that you and your family will find strength, peace and joy.


    P.S. Get some rest!!

  35. I’m so sorry for your loss, janey! I have read of his struggles and yours right there beside him, and while we have never met I feel for you. May you be comforted in the warmth of the cheezlubs. {{{{{Janey}}}}}

  36. I just found out Janey. I am so very sorry.


    When Peace like a river attendeth my way,
    When sorrows like sea billows roll.
    What ever my lot, Thou has taught me to say,
    “It is well, It is well with my soul.”

    “It is well with my soul.”
    “It is well, It is well with my soul.”

    The Lord will be him as he goes to meadows with no illness, no pain.
    The Lord will be with you during your loss. Know though, you will see him again. It is a promise God gave us in our Lord Jesus.

    I will pray for you and yours.

    Love, Carol/KCT

    • That is one of the hymns we’ll be singing Thursday, and one of my favorites of long years’ standing. Thank you, dear one. I know we will see each other, and it will be a short while when we get there, just as the 35 years’ marriage went by just like that *snaps fingers*! Thank you for your prayers, dear one.
      Love you bunches! —janey

  37. Dear Janey
    I’ve just read of your loss and offer my condolences. I’m sure that you look forward to a reunion with him but in the meantime I’m sure that you will miss him greatly. {{{{{Janey}}}}}

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